I have a mission.
Now that could sound a bit grand, couldn’t it? But that’s not my intention.
First, let me share it with you…
I want to share with you what I’ve learnt over my 54 years (nearly 55). Not because I consider myself better than you (I don’t), but because what I’ve learnt has helped me. And it might help you too.
I believe every life lived has a purpose, and sometimes that purpose is to share what we have learned so far, while we continue to learn, and share more.
What I’ve learnt has helped me “be me”. That might sound strange, but “being me” hasn’t always been as straightforward as it sounds. Perhaps you’ve had that experience too…?
It started when I was under 2 – two different homes, two names, two “me’s” already. But for sure, I remember the conflict between the “me” I wanted to be or felt I was, and the “me” my parents wanted me to be. Then there was school and teachers, other family members, and friends. Even career guidance experts. The phrase “round peg, square hole” seems fitting here. Or, should I say, mis-fitting?
Through a series of events, changes, and challenges, I instinctively developed the skill of creating pseudo-”me”s – as many as I needed. Each one seemingly real and authentic on the outside. But on the inside, I knew they were merely masking the “real” me. The layers built up, a bit like papier mache, until I felt “out of touch”. You may have thought you were looking at a free spirit, but inside was a lost soul.
So, what did I learn that could possibly help you?
It began with the mindset stuff. I learnt that…
⭐️My thinking shaped my reality.
⭐️If I became aware of my thoughts, I could begin to change my reality.
⭐️My perception was often the difference between feeling trapped, and being free.
⭐️The world as I see it, is not the way you see it. And we will never see things exactly the same way.
⭐️I needed to give myself permission to do me; I didn’t need permission from you.
⭐️I don’t need approval from anyone else.
⭐️Depression is about being stuck in the past, and anxiety is worrying about the future, and that I can choose the present moment by living more consciously. And that I can deal with adversity when it comes my way.
⭐️I can be anything I want with renewed intention, focus, and purpose.
⭐️Without intention, focus, and purpose, I’m like a boat just drifting at the whim of the wind and tides. Settings goals is a start.
⭐️More is within my control than I ever thought possible.
⭐️My imagination is both my greatest tool, and my most dangerous weapon.
On a deeper level, I learnt that…
⚡️There is limitless abundance for all. And it starts with appreciating what I have, here and now – the stuff I normally take for granted.
⚡️There is no such thing as coincidence.
⚡️Manifesting is real and it happens 24-7, whether you realise it or not.
⚡️If I ask, I will receive, if it comes from my heart.
⚡️Some things are beyond my control. And that’s OK.
⚡️I am always in the right place at the right time, even if it doesn’t always feel that way.
⚡️When I believe that life happens for me, rather than to me, my life is instantly better.
⚡️God is real, but I currently prefer to call it source, or the Great-Out-Doors, or universal energy.
⚡️When I tap into my source and follow my intuition, things flow a whole lot better.
⚡️When I trust my gut instinct, I’m usually right.
⚡️Mother Nature is a great source of energy and a great healer. She doesn’t need us. We need her.
⚡️We are so much more than we think we are.
⚡️We are all connected. If I hurt you, I hurt me too.
⚡️I can choose to be something, or nothing. I have free will.
⚡️If I don’t truly, madly, deeply love myself, I can’t truly, madly, deeply love you.
🧡I am perfectly imperfect.
🧡I am unique.
🧡I am a creator.
I learnt that the “me” I thought was lost, was always there. She was neither lost, nor broken. And she was every single bit “good enough” and more.
💜💜And so are you💜💜
If you’d like to discover YOUR mission, and unlock your true magnificence, believe me – it’s neither too late, nor impossible!!! There is no better time than NOW.
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